Truly powerful people possess a 'game breaking mindset'
There is such a story.
The Zen master locked the young monk in a room, blocked it with bricks, and asked him to find the door and walk out on his own.
The little monk searched carefully in the room, searching every corner, only to find that there was no door at all.
The little monk thought, "Without a door, can't you make one yourself
So he knocked down a wall, turned it into a door, and walked out calmly.
This is a game breaking mindset.
When encountering difficulties, evasion is one way, but there is also another way to break through the situation.
Only by breaking through the difficulties in life can one overcome oneself and become the master of one's destiny.
People who don't understand breaking the game
It will only breed endless anxiety
A netizen from Yizhihu was admitted to the office writing position of a county-level unit after graduating from college, and has been working for 8 years now.
In the current heat of public examinations, she hates this job very much.
A leader is a hands off shopkeeper, but he needs to face various miscellaneous things that come his way.
And time is tight, often notified today and submitted tomorrow.
So he often works overtime until late at night, and sometimes he can't rest normally on weekends.
Apart from frequently working overtime, I am constantly being sought after after after work and have no personal living space at all.
He felt very painful and didn't want to be oppressed for a long time.
But as soon as he thought about his parents' attitude towards his resignation, he began to have deep doubts about himself.
Faced with the age of 35 and having been in a stable state for a long time, he doesn't know what else he can do.
I have no concept of my desired job, I only know that I am extremely resistant to my current life situation.
This made him even more certain that he was dissatisfied and too imaginative.
So, he couldn't make up his mind to resign.
He could only repeat the past days, doing work he didn't want to do, meeting people he didn't want to face, gradually developing depression.
After reading this netizen's experience, it's hard not to sigh.
This is like a dead loop, one game after another. These bureaus tied him tightly, making him unable to move.
Always thinking too much and doing too little, always consumed by the gap between ideals and reality.
Resignation is not scary, nor is resigning naked. The scariest thing is being trapped in endless negative emotions every day, yet unwilling to make even the slightest change.
Only by gradually clarifying the context, resolving every dilemma, and bravely taking the next step can we break through the impasse of life and gain a new sense of inner freedom.
Growing up is painful, but not growing more painful.
Dare to break the game
To get out of the cage of thinking
We all know that the elevator can only run indoors, so how did the outdoor elevator come into being?
There is a very interesting story about its appearance.
In Santiago, there is an old hotel:With the increase in passenger flow, the hotel supporting the design of the elevator because of the small old, has been unable to adapt to the new demand.
The hotel owner is going to convert a new elevator.
He spent a huge sum of money to bring in the country's best engineers and architects to discuss how to rebuild.
Because they all have very rich experience in the industry, after discussion, everyone reached an agreement: from elevator installation to use, the hotel needs to be closed for at least half a year.
In the face of such a situation, the boss frowned, he seriously asked: "there is really no other way? If closed for half a year, the hotel's economic losses are too great."
Architects and engineers said in unison: "It must be like this. We have been in this business for so long. From experience, there is no other plan."
Hearing this sentence, the boss's brow frowned even tighter.
At this time, a cleaner in charge of cleaning just passed. After listening carefully for a while, he stopped what he was doing.
Glancing at the determined expert and worried boss, he mumbled, "I do have a good idea."
The engineer looked at him contemptuously: "You don't even have experience in installing elevators. How can you know how to install elevators?"
The boss also casually asked, "Let's hear it."
"If it were me, I would install the elevator directly outside the house."
"What a clever way!" After listening to the boss, a bright.
After hearing this, the engineer and the architect were surprised and speechless, and then both bowed their heads in shame.
Soon, the hotel installed a new elevator outside the house.
And this elevator has become the world's first outdoor elevator in the history of architecture.
A change of idea has completely changed the elevator industry in the whole world: the world-famous Bailong elevator; the Eiffel Tower elevator overlooking Paris; including sightseeing elevators that can be seen everywhere in various shopping malls.
The emergence of all this stems from the cleaner's unconventional thinking.
The famous host Moreau once said: "We are all prisoners of our own experience."
If we stick to the barriers of empiricism and fall into the mire of habitual thinking, we will constantly close ourselves and be helpless in the face of difficulties.
Once you dare to break the game, the cage of thinking will be completely opened.
Bold assumptions, pointing to the bullseye of the broken game, will change with the situation, and there will be another village.
Dare to break the game
to break the deadlock
Sang Lan is a famous female gymnast in China, who has won the national vault champion.
In a competition, she accidentally fell and caused a fracture of the cervical spine, and has since become a disabled person with high paraplegia.
For a 17-year-old girl, the news came as a bolt from the blue.
The most unacceptable thing is that her gymnastics dream was snuffed out.
During that time Sang Lan became autistic and grumpy and hated to see any news reports about gymnastics.
Later, she knew that the facts could not be changed, and accepted her own changes and actively carried out rehabilitation training.
As hard and earnest as she practiced gymnastics, she was slowly able to take care of herself on her own.
Sang Lan said: "I want to live a healthy, wonderful and valuable life."
After the trough, the first thing Sang Lan did was to go to college.
In the face of weak learning foundation and inconvenience in physical action, she clenched her teeth all the way.
She finally became a college student at Peking University. At the same time, she signed a contract with Star TV to become a sports host.
After graduating from the Journalism Department of Peking University, she was selected as the official special correspondent for the Beijing Olympics.
As in the words of the transition:“The master is not stronger than us in ability, higher in IQ and better in concentration. Just because they think deeper and see more than we do, they see bigger systems.”
This system is the bureau. The road ahead is long, and the mountains do not turn.
No matter fate throws you to any point, you search on the spot and keep breaking through.
Face up to the difficulties they face, find all solutions, and act immediately to change the status quo.
The so-called "no break, no stand" is to dare to clear the past, launch a sprint to the unknown challenge, and meet the highlights of life.
Learn to break the game
To see the dawn of dawn
1. Develop critical thinking
樊登说过一句话:“批判性思维的最高境界,是对自己的行为进行批判。”
我们时常活在自己的固有观念里,被无形的牢笼所束缚。
喜欢用单一的标准,用自己的惯性思维,来看待周围的人和事。
当你做了本能的选择时,静下心来,反躬自问:“只能这么做吗?只有这一种解决方法吗?”
时刻保持客观理性的态度,有依据、多角度地看待问题,才能快速破局。
2、看待问题,增加时间维度
人在遇到问题时,喜欢从当下的环境下思考问题,然后做出判断。
但时间滚滚向前,任何事情都在以肉眼不可见的方式发生变化。
当把我们的焦点扩大至未来,面临的问题就会以一个更立体和全面的方式呈现在你面前。
如此,你的看法或选择才更趋向于客观。
遇事不要拘泥于现状,把目光放长远,逼迫自己做更深层次的思考。
3、提升认知
在复杂的问题面前,努力和辛苦都会变得无比廉价。
一个人的认知如果永远停在脚下,看不到高处,无论走了多远的路,都只是原地打转。
有一句话是这样说的:“发展都是有规律的,每当你突破一个盲区,就会突飞猛进一次。”
只有认知到位,拥有对事情深刻的理解和对现象本质的洞察,才能以四两拨千斤的巧力化解前进路上的难题。
《黑天鹅》里有一句话:“挡在你面前的,只有你自己。”
没有任何人或事可以限制你的脚步,除非你自己同意。
敢于突破自身边界,直面人生困局,便会洞见更广阔的天地,成就更好的自己。
愿大家都能前路平坦,万山无阻。
Information source: Enterprise management
