Three keys to unlock 2023: accept, change, and let go
All the past is a prologue, and all the future is predictable.
Unconsciously, 2022 has quietly turned over.
In the past year, we may have had many times when we were powerless and encountered many things that did not meet people's wishes.
But it's okay, each year has its own flavor, and each stop has its own scenery.
At this moment of transition between old and new, we accept what must be accepted, what can be changed, let go of what should be let go, and joyfully embark on 2023.
01.The first key: Accept
The waves that have gone will not flow back, and the time that has gone will not come again.
2022, some say it will be the most difficult year, while others say it will be the year with the most regrets.
Perhaps it was a sudden natural disaster, or perhaps an unexpected man-made disaster, repeatedly swinging heavy hammers to smash us into low valleys, blowing out the hope that we had finally saved up.
Perhaps due to the high mountains and distant waters, or the inability to detach ourselves, many promises were not fulfilled, and we missed out on many people and things in this way.
How many people complain about this, thinking that fate likes to play tricks on them.
How many people stare at the past with regret, unable to leave the cage of self blame and self pity.
But this is life, there are few things that come true, and many things that go against our wishes.
Some things, no matter how unwilling or unwilling you are, are already like boats.
Some people, even if you don't want to let go and want to keep them, are difficult to reconcile.
Constantly struggling and insisting will ultimately harm oneself.
I really like a quote from writer Ma Jiahui in "The Round Table Faction":
Life is nothing but hardship, I have settled it down.
It's better to accept the script arranged by fate calmly than to immerse oneself in pain.
After a hard fall, no need to yell, pat the dust, please continue to move forward non-stop.
Emotionally, there is no need to hurt or grieve. You have to believe that you will meet better people.
In 2023, we will also have all kinds of joys and sorrows.
But the true meaning of life lies in the happiness when there is a heart, cherish the little joy;
When you are sad, you can still have a good time.
02.The second key: change
San Mao once wrote a word:
Occasionally complain once, may be some kind of emotional catharsis, also have no can. But habitually complaining without seeking change is not a wise man.
It is human instinct to complain when things happen.
The epidemic disrupts business plans and we blame God for fighting against us.
We blame others for making things difficult for ourselves.
But patronizing complaints, trouble will be closer to their own, happiness from their farther away.
Complaint, can not solve the problem, also can not ease the mood, will only let the enthusiasm gradually fade, let the negative energy slowly grow.
Water is shaped and rounded, and people are flexible with the situation.
Timely change is a person's true salvation.
To force yourself to read a lot of books and broaden the boundaries of knowledge, those passwords that become excellent are hidden in every page.
It is necessary to settle down and polish good skills, pursue perfection in everything, and only when you have a skill can you have a place to stand.
The unknown sweat you shed, through a lot of unattended time, will have a day of flowering and fruiting.
There has never been a dead end in life. If you go all out, there will be no mountains or rivers that you can't climb.
The road to 2023 is under our feet.
Want to pursue happiness, want to succeed to work hard.
All the strength you have accumulated today will definitely make you a better tomorrow.
03.Third key: Put it down.
There is a saying in The Shawshank Redemption:
If the heart is a cage, it is a cage everywhere. Freedom is not outside, but in the heart.
Life ups and downs, life ups and downs, happy or not, not in the outside world, but in the state of mind.
When there is a dispute with a rotten person, some people are so depressed that they can't calm down for a long time, while others laugh it off.
When it comes to bad things, some people are too tangled to let go, while others can gently put it down.
If you hold on to one thing, you will be trapped in one thing.
In a thousand turns, blindly chewing pain, the mood will continue to be implicated, happiness is washed away without a trace.
In fact, the broken things in life are like the glass ballast. If you hold it too tightly, you will eventually hurt yourself.
Let go of your hands, and then read the important things in here, will also become a light weight;
Open your heart, and then the heart is like a knife, it will become light.
Good or bad days are between one's own thoughts. There is nothing in this world that can't be passed, only the mood that can't be passed.
Those difficult problems that can't sleep at night, pick up a thousand pounds and put down two or two light.
Those rotten people who are bitter about it will naturally not be made into a foul atmosphere if they do not invite them into their lives.
As sung in "Happy Ballad:
The sunrise in the East China Sea sets in the west hills, sorrow is also a day, joy is also a day.
If you don't get into trouble, you will be comfortable and your heart will be comfortable.
Life is very short, but morning and evening and spring and autumn are new every day and new every year.
Let go of yesterday's sorrow, empty tomorrow's worries, to embrace today's happiness.
In the past year, no matter what you have been in internal friction, no matter what bad experiences you have been sad about, don't take it to heart.
Life this book, turn over this page, to write the next chapter.
In the new year, I hope you can take good care of your mood, not worry about things, not worry about people.
Life is a cruel breakthrough, no one is not injured.
Time is the cure for everything.
No matter what we have experienced in the past, we will eventually usher in the dawn.
In 2022, good things and bad things have become the story of drinking.
In the new year, take the road under your feet and realize the dream in your heart. Every day, your heart is like flowers and trees, and you live brilliantly and freely.
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