The Nine Major Relationships for Being a Person, Doing Things, and Being a Leader
Being a person, doing things, and being a leader all require learning and thinking more, being a person with profound thoughts, and being a person with emotions and righteousness.The following nine relationships break the connection between the above three and are worth watching more times!
Success doesn't have to be with me "and" Success must be with me "
'Success doesn't have to be mine' is a state of mind, broad mindedness, and sentiment that reflects a detached view of fame and fortune, embodies a correct view of political achievements, and reflects a precious spirit and mentality of being willing to do preparatory work and tackle unfinished tasks.The success of one's career may not necessarily be seen and achieved in my hands or during my term of office, but one must work hard and continue to strive for its realization, without regard for gains or losses.However, not being able to achieve remarkable results and leave a lasting reputation does not mean being irresponsible or inactive.But we must have the mission and responsibility of 'success must be mine',To achieve both outstanding and potential results, to focus on both the present and the future, and to do practical things that lay the foundation, lay the groundwork, and benefit future generations'Don't be with me' is admirable, 'There must be me' is precious.
”Looking up at the stars "and being down-to-earth
Looking up at the stars "means seeing the whole picture, knowing the future, standing high, looking far, and thinking deeply.Those who do not plan for the overall situation are not enough to plan for a specific area, and those who do not plan for everything are not enough to plan for the moment. "No matter what position one is in, in order to not lose direction and move steadily towards the future, it is necessary to frequently observe and analyze problems from multiple angles and perspectives, study and grasp the" form "and" trend "of the operation and development of things.A glimpse of a leopard reveals the whole picture, and a view of the whole picture from one locationThis is not only a position, perspective, and pattern, but also a method and way of thinking.However, 'looking up at the stars' is not about aiming too high, but about not indulging in daydreaming, not focusing on empty voices, starting from little things, implementing one thing at a time, and moving forward step by step.
Seizing the Day and Not Watching the Day "
Ten thousand years is too long, seize the day and night. To do things, one must seize opportunities, race against time, and have a spirit of time waits for no one and striving for excellence.Seizing the day and night means completing tasks in the shortest possible time. Today's tasks are completed today, and the immediate tasks at hand are dealt with immediately. This is a good style and an ability.Life is short, and many things cannot wait; Don't miss the opportunity, many things can't be wrong, and if you miss them, they won't come again.However, some things cannot be accomplished and realized overnight, and heroes cannot be judged by day and night.As the saying goes, 'slow work produces fine work'. Many things require embroidery skills, craftsmanship spirit, perseverance, resilience, and patience to nail down the nail, and persistence for a long time.Completing one battle is a manifestation of impatience and eagerness for quick success and instant benefits. Especially some things areThose who do not judge success or failure based on temporary events must calm down, endure loneliness, and sit on the cold bench。Seizing the day and night reflects a sense of responsibility, mission, and urgency, while 'not looking at the day and night' embodies patience, perseverance, and determination.
Do your best and act within your means
In the process of pursuing a career, whether it is setting goals or determining tasks, or proposing specific requirements and implementing policies and measures, it should be like "jumping up and picking peaches", which is called doing one's best and acting within one's means.If you can easily pick a peach without jumping up, just by tiptoeing, it's not about doing your best, but about having too much spare time;If a peach that can't even be reached by jumping up is not about doing it within one's means, but about aiming too high and having high eyes but low hands, it belongs to the category of having the heart but insufficient energy.Striving to the best of one's ability is courage and boldness, while acting within one's means is seeking truth and practicality. Doing one's best requires a proactive and wholehearted attitude, and the courage to move forward in the face of adversity;To do what is possible requires a scientific attitude and method of seeking truth from facts and proceeding from reality.You have to eat one bite at a time and do things one by one. we need to respect objective laws, pay attention to scientific methods,Not brute-force, not blind, not overdrawn, how capable is it to do many big things?。To do one's best emphasizes subjective initiative, while to do one's best emphasizes the objectivity of things. If you combine doing your best with doing what you can, you can "jump up and pick peaches.
"Three fires" and "three pots of water"
As the saying goes: a new official took three fires. "Burning fire" is a habit of thinking and working style of many officials, and it is also a kind of path dependence.In general, there is no harm in "burning fire. As long as it is a "fire" that is truly based on in-depth investigation and research and scientific demonstration, it can not only ignite the enthusiasm and passion in the hearts of the cadres and the masses, but also release the fire in their hearts after taking office, as long as they have a good grasp of the "fire", "fire" and "fire", the advantages of "burning fire" outweigh the disadvantages.However, we should not blindly be obsessed with "burning fire", or even ignore the "fire" and "fire situation", let it expand and spread, let alone allow those "booing" around to follow the "arson". At this time, we also need to be sober, calm and rational, and have to lose no time to pour a few pots of cold water.
"Watering" is actually to calm down and think, sit down and study, and slow down and walk "square steps"."Three basins of water" is to water the overheated brain and the overanxious psychology.When flowers are surrounded and applause is sounded, it is more calm, when it is fast and hurried, it is more calm, and when it is dazzling and confusing, it is more quiet.Both burning the "three fires" and pouring the "three pots of water" can make myself proud and full of ambition from the beginning, but also steady and calm, cold outside and hot inside, old and prudent, not old-fashioned, full of energy and tenacity.
Seeding a new chapter "and" reciting the old sutras"
It is human nature to seek new achievements, strive for new achievements, display new images, and rise to a new level. Most people with a sense of responsibility, mission, professionalism, and self-motivated are eager to have a new creation and a new situation in their posts and tenure.As a result, some people are used to mentioning many new slogans and new ideas as soon as they come up. They are keen on new projects and new stalls. They are not interested in previous work ideas and plans, and like to start a new business;Some are even more afraid of the problems left over by their predecessors, such as the so-called "new officials ignore old accounts", and so on.
There is a problem of inheritance and innovation in the development of things. Innovation is a kind of sublation, not abandonment. We should inherit and develop the good ideas and methods, experiences and measures, traditions and styles of work in the past, deny and discard the bad things, and affirm and carry forward the good things.
The government is precious and persistent, and it cannot be changed day and night, otherwise it will make people at a loss. "reciting the old sutras" is to do things that are in line with the reality in the past one by one, year after year, without "distraction" or "astigmatism", draw a blueprint to the end, and work for a long time.
process and result
Without process, there will be no result; without result, the process will be discounted, even without value and meaning. This should be a very simple truth. But in reality, some people only blindly pursue the result, or only ask the result regardless of the process; while some people only pay attention to the process, but regardless of the result.
It should be said that these two attitudes are wrong and even harmful. People who only ask about the results and ignore the process will make the process uncontrollable, or even out of shape. In order to achieve the goal, they can do whatever it takes, regardless of the cost; people who only talk about the process and ignore the results are likely to get twice the result with half the effort and in vain.
As the saying goes: No pains, no gains. Cultivation is the process, the harvest is the result. Generally speaking, the process is proportional to the result, and each result should be a superposition of the process and a natural result.If the expected results are not achieved, indicating that there are problems, flaws and errors in the process, we should check and reflect on which link, which process and which chain went wrong.There is a saying: the process determines success or failure. If you want to achieve career success and achieve tangible performance, you must work hard on ordinary, daily and regular, and make hard and sometimes even long-term and painful efforts.
We should see that the process is the necessary result, but the result is not necessarily the inevitable result of the process. Therefore, the process should be more important than the result, and the process should be detailed, solid and perfect with a calm and calm attitude towards the result.
Lifting weight as light and lifting light as heavy
Things vary from light to heavy, from big to small, from master to time, from slow to urgent and from difficult to easy. You must not grab your eyebrows and beard, let alone pick up sesame seeds and lose watermelons.If the matter is not clear and the distinction is not clear, it will be a waste of people and money to make things that should be carried out in a tedious and complicated way, while it will inevitably cause harm to people and money if they do not attach importance to, do not take seriously, or even paralyze things that should be carried out lightly.
Lifting the weight as if it is light and lifting the weight as if it is light is not only a strategic issue, but also a tactical issue, and it is an important epistemology and methodology. Lifting heavy is a kind of general demeanor, it shows a kind of open and close, vertical and horizontal bearing; lifting light is a pragmatic style, it shows a kind of hands-on, rigorous and meticulous spirit.There should be both attitudes and methods. Sometimes it is necessary to grasp the big and let go of the small with some things, and sometimes it is necessary to take the small with the big, and see the big in the small with some things, so as to realize the organic combination of lifting weight as light and lifting light as heavy.
"Sword Gall" and "Piece of Heart"
As the comprehensive deepening of reforms advances in depth, there are more and more "deep water areas" that need to be broken. At this time, more and more people with great wisdom, courage, and ability to fight."The heart of the small couch is exhibited, and the long tassel sword is daring." "Sword gall" is a kind of rigidity, "Qin Xin" is a kind of softness, the former is courage, courage and courage, the latter is affectionate, elegant and delicate.Many of the things we face are not only to "break into Kyushu" with wind and fire, but also to warm people's hearts with spring breeze and rain; we should not only make seemingly "ruthless" decisions, but also learn to operate with emotion; we should not only have the courage to be thunderous, but also have the patience of gentle wind and drizzle.
Being a person, doing things, and being a leader all require learning and thinking more, being a person with profound thoughts, and being a person with emotions and righteousness.
Source: Enterprise Management (WeChat Public Number)
